Frequently Axed Questions

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How much does it cost to join?
Nothing! It's amazing! Click the JOIN NOW button below to get your best match!

Why does the "find a match" page takes so long to load?
There's a countdown timer on the page which should help you pass the time. Our algorithms are complicated, so it takes time. Cool your jets, turbo.

How does Tillder make money?
The short answer is yes. The longer answer is "because we use metric." Twitter doesn't make money and nobody bats an eye, but all the sudden some guy makes a suspicious dating site and all the sudden everybody thinks I'm spending my spoon magnate inheritance trying to have awkward sex with tens of thousands of strangers. Just don't sweat it, we're doing fine.

Why come Tillder be as it does?
Because it is as it do be. We didn't choose to build Tillder, it chose us.

I actually like my match. How do I meet this person?
Just follow the on-screen instructions. If there are none, it wasn't meant to be.

Why are there no women on this site?
What? That's crazy! Why would you even ask that??? There are tons of them! They're practically everywhere. If you're not interested, just don't participate. Man, why do people have to be so crazy?

What if I get a dating match I'm not interested in?
Best advice is to broaden your horizons. You may get a great friend, a free dinner, or the most memorable night of passion of your life.

What if my match genuinely disgusts me, like on a personal level?
When you grow old, you're more likely to regret the things you didn't do than the things you did. Our matches are scientific, so there's definitely some attraction and appeal there, so why not give it a try?

What should I do on a first date?
First thing is to show up looking as pretty as you possibly can. If you're a 4, gussy that ass up to at least a 6. Next, demand that you pay for the date, so there are no expectations. Lastly, you should show your appreciation by totally having sex with your date. Oral counts, but the real deal really says "thanks for taking the time to meet me."

What should I NOT do on a first date?
Don't call the cops. We don't need a repeat of that situation. One thing to remember about guys is that they find consent to be super sexy.

What should I do if I think the entire date is a scam?
You're likely feeling irrational fear, perhaps caused by your impending period. Best advice is to keep it to yourself and definitely don't post about it on Facebook with a link to our site. We're totally legit and we want no part of your head drama.

Why have I been matched with the CEO of Tillder Dating?
Can't say how the system works, but he's really, really awesome, and he has a very wide variety of interests. It's almost certain you were paired with him because he's just so funny and super. You'd like him. You guys should totally go out.

How can I cancel a date I've already set?
You can't. It's actually impossible. Since we have your ISP address, your match can hunt you down like a starling to have that perfect, amazing date.

Should I use protection if I decide to have sex with my date?
What happens between consenting adults is none of our business, but if you want to skip the rubber, please bring a current, verifiable document from your doctor or county health clinic verifying your complete lack of STDs, along with proof that you are on birth control. You may find your date is willing to take you downtown to pound town (funky town adjacent) just for showing it.

What if I think my date is a pedofile?
Woah, woah, woah! That's an awfully big word for a 14 year old!

What should I do if I'm overweight and have body issues?
Just be honest and open with yourself, but be more open with your date. Nothing builds self-esteem quite like stampeding into the sack with a successful, charismatic guy you just met on a free, off-brand dating website. I'm sorry I said "stampeding", that was insensitive of me.

I can't login to my account
Please try rebooting. If that doesn't work, try using the login page again. If that still doesn't work, head over to our to our Live Chat Support page.

Why do I keep getting the same matches?
Our connections use a proprietery system we can't divulge for legal reasons. If you keep getting the same match, you owe it to yourself to meet that person and do whatever comes naturally.

Can I request a new match within the 22-24 hour waiting period?
Yes and no. You can request another match, but it will very likely be the same person, since you're still you and your match is still me, I mean him. I mean him or her.

Why does Live Chat feel like a scripted bot?
That's an excellent question and one you should take up with one of our many very real reps over at Live Customer Chat Support

I forgot my password, can I get it reset?
No, but you can create a brand new account just as easily.

I paid for premium access and the site still doesn't work!
Okay, this is a page of frequently asked questions, not frequently stated complaints. If you don't phrase your complaint as a question, I can't imagine how I can help you.

With that said, we have no record of you buying a premium membership. I'm looking at the logs here, and even though I don't know your username, I can see that we've literally sold zero premium memberships. Like... ever!

Who created this amazing site?
Tillder Dating (tl;dr) is the brainchild of Byron Dwight, one of the most dynamic, fascinating, sexy and generous human beings in the history of online dating. He's really super awesome. You'd totally like him.

I'm an investor, how can I get in on the ground floor?
Easy! All you have to do is be me and have a time machine. Barring that, you can still get in on the 2nd or 3rd floor, or even the atrium. Just contact us directly with any enquiries, inquiries, symquiries or aquires and we'll evaluate your proposal.

How does Tillder keep minors safe?
Simple. We have a Terms of Service page, somewhere, that clearly explains that you cannot use this site unless you are at least 18 years of age... or 13. I don't have it handy, but it's something like that. It's in the teens. There are states where you can get married at 14 with parental consent. We can't discriminate the rights of those lawfully entitled to meet predators. I mean partners. Partners is who they'll meet.

I'm filing a lawsuit. Where should I send the paperwork?
Please send all legal correspondence through your attorney to:
      Ucann Gofik & Yaselv
      c/o Ima Feltcher
      1 Shuvitupyass Lane, Suite 2
      Los Angeles, NY 90210

Expect a response commensurate with how very serious and grievous your complaint is generally in serious terms. Please allow 6-8 weeks for the most serious issues.

How can I advertise on this site?
Now you're speaking my language... Okay, I'll get an email address setup shortly.